learning what real love feels like

My first husband had White Knight written all over him

But it didn’t last,  we were not a team in life. He was god and i was always the little girl pulling at his coat begging for attention.

when i finally gave up and left i went looking for all that was missing in my life

What i discovered is that NO ONE can make you happy unless you are happy within YOURSELF.

That being said, happiness comes in the smallest of things.

And you don’t realize how easy it is to make another person feel love until they do it for you

It is as simple as holding her had

kissing her good morning,every morning

Starting her car on a cold dayembrace

Driving her to work without complaint on a winters day when the roads are nasty

Cheering her on when she has lost faith in herself

Thanking her for the dinner she cooked, especially when she is not feeling 100%

Stopping in the door way to tell her good by for the 5th time

Blowing her kisses from your truck in the driveway

Not realizing that she is watching you beam as you talk about her to friends

I never had these things, the tiny things that show how much i am loved

And every day is a new adventure

Another moment to feel that love

And to wrap myself up in it

I can tell you that it is heaven



  1. dievca said,

    January 15, 2015 at 4:20 pm

    Look a the silliness about Happiness on my post for today. Not quite the lovelies you are mentioning, but still a bit of “small things” happiness. 🙂

  2. January 15, 2015 at 5:19 pm

    Beautiful thoughts to share. 🙂

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